At Cotton Tree Audiology we know that the gift of hearing never loses its value.
This often most noticeable when we gather around the lunch and dinner tables with loved ones to celebrate the holidays and the end of the busy year. Hearing is a central part of a great Christmas meal. And what about new year’s resolutions? It is very difficult for everyone to share those, when some of us are only catching some of what we’re saying. Speaking of new year’s resolutions and hearing, I was wondering if we all wouldn’t benefit from making clearer communication our goal for 2025? For some of us, this may involve trying a set of hearing devices. But regardless of whether that is required, for most of us, it could be a review of our communication strategies with our loved ones, especially those with hearing and communication difficulties.
How considerate are we when talking to our family with hearing loss? I have compiled some tried and tested tips for talking and listening, to ensure the best opportunity for everyone to hear, and be heard.
If you have friends and family with hearing loss, two specific challenges present themselves with family and friends:
Challenge 1: it is difficult to hear when there is a lot of background noise
Challenge 2: it is difficult to hear when people are speaking from far away.
What to do about it:
• ensure that your face is well-lit
• avoid standing with your back to an open window
Remember: many people living with hearing difficulty benefit from having access to speech reading even when they use hearing devices.
• Avoid turning away from the listener when you are speaking.
Life often forces us to multi-task. Try to minimise packing away dishes, or looking for small plates in cupboard, while you are communicating.
Consider seating arrangements with hearing in mind.
• Hearing aids work most effectively when the wearer is within 1m from the person speaking.
Encourage loved ones with hearing aids to use them during conversations, even if they are sceptical about their benefit.
• Notice small improvements in their communication, and comment on these.
• The more specific you can be, the better. For example: did you know that you did not ask John to repeat himself once during lunch?
Winston Churchill said: “plans are of little importance, but planning is essential”. While conversations happen spontaneously, a little planning will go a long way to ensure good access to the topic, the speakers, the inside jokes and the family lore for everyone at the table. Wouldn’t that be the best way to end, and start a new year? I always tell my clients with hearing loss that wearing hearing devices is an act of courtesy to others. Let’s meet their effort with ensuring a welcoming communication environment. The biggest gift we can give our family and friends this year is consideration.
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